This is in continuation of my last post, Fake it till you make it. I felt the need to explain it further.
Faking it, in my understanding, tells me that I have an issue and I’m choosing not to look at it. There can be various reasons for me to not look at it – there may be pain,trauma, hurt, resentment, it may make me feel less confident so on and so forth. Hence I choose to stay in denial of it. That way I feel safe and I’m also in the space where I think I’m working on the issue.
The question I will ask myself here is, Am I really working on resolving the issue?
Or does this touch the surface of whatever I face and keeps me sane and in the status quo.
Having said, that I would like to add here. If I truly and totally believe and feel in my inner core that:
- I will keep myself in the positive state of mind, things will get better.
- I’m in that space of picking myself up each time and tell myself, Yes, I believe!
- I’m ready to take action based on the present scenario and not give into the triggers. I learn to respond and not react to the situations.
- I’m ready for the changes that will come along the way.
Every word we speak, every thought we think, every feeling we have, has a major impact on our well being. And we have to pick ourselves up each time and tell ourselves I let go of my past and I am happy in my now and I am looking forward to my future.
It’s a conscious effort one needs to put in along-with chanting the Affirmation for the change we are so looking forward in life.
In the end I will just like to add one thing, When we smell some bad odor we not only work on removing the smell, we also look at the source of where it is originating from. We do that in order to eradicate the foul smell from its source.
From my heart to yours 💕